To be loved by those who actually love us is good, instead of by those who really don’t. Real and true love comes from those who do it on a daily basis from their hearts. Seeking it out everyday trying to fulfill a quick fix by self promotion is not the way.There is a difference between looking for love and looking for approval. As long as you are happy with yourself, you don’t need the approval of anyone else. But if you are not happy and are seeking approval of others based on your appearance or by getting them to tell you how pretty or handsome you are, this is not going to fix your self esteem. That is something you need to do on your own. When you wake up each day, look in the mirror and tell yourself. Say to yourself, I’m a good person and I’m going to do good things. Why, because you are!